In our collaborative work, but also in our work in general, we have to deal with emotions. How can we be creative? In the process of supporting our clients, but also in our teamwork, we constantly have to manage emotions. We have found a way by using the EFT-theory in our work which we would like to introduce! By using EFT-skills we manage to regulate better the emotions and attachment needs of our clients, but also of our selves as professionals working in a team.