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Guest Post by: Randy Heller

“Peacemaking – Let it Begin with Me…!”

Kevin Robert Scudder, a cherished husband, father, and founder of the Seattle Collaborative Law Center, passed away on June 28, 2023, in Seattle at the age of 63, surrounded by his daughters, Clara and Ella, and his partner of 41 years, Anna Davis. His death followed complications from an allergic reaction to heparin after knee replacement surgery.

Born in Omaha, Nebraska, in 1960 to Charles Scudder and Barbara Binswanger, Kevin was the fourth of six siblings. He was known for his playful spirit, love of baking chocolate chip cookies, and dedication to keeping a tidy kitchen. His passion for music was nurtured by his parents’ involvement in the Omaha Folklore Society, and he developed a love for sports and nature during his childhood. His travels to Egypt and Israel deepened his commitment to conflict resolution.

As a lawyer, Kevin was a compassionate and diligent advocate. He became a leader in the Collaborative law community, serving with various organizations, including as President of Collaborative Professionals of Washington and on the Executive Board of the International Association of Collaborative Professionals. He was honored as "Professional of the Year" by the Washington State Bar Association Family Law Section in 2023.

Kevin’s personal motto, “Peacemaking. Let it begin with me,” reflected his commitment to helping families navigate divorce peacefully. He mentored many Collaborative professionals, leaving a significant legacy.

In honor of Kevin, the Kevin Scudder Higher Education Scholarship Fund was established to support Law and Graduate students in Mental Health and Finance in becoming collaboratively trained. Encourage the next generation to embrace the Collaborative Movement and learn peaceful methods for restructuring families.

Applications can be sent to Dr Randy Heller

drrandy@familynetworknewyork.com.

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