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Bruce E Avery, JD (Lawyer/Mediator)
Everybody has a special talent, a skill that gives them satisfaction and pleasure. Some are tap dancers, some are prize fighters. I am neither. I help people solve problems.


Over my 30 years of experience in resolving legal conflicts, I have learned and practiced problem-solving techniques that benefit and satisfy both parties without losing sight of my clients' needs and feelings.


My foundation for this approach comes from my 20 years in the Army. During my five years as an enlisted man, I served as an ombudsman for the residents of lower-enlisted housing areas. The next 15 years I served in the Judge Advocate General's Corps (JAG), negotiating claims against the Army. Over that time, I successfully resolved disputes both grand and small, from claims brought by US and foreign civilians and local governments (as well as other national governments) against the United States down to neighbor-to-neighbor arguments over parking spaces.


Since 1993, after I retired from the Army, I have restricted my practice to family law, predominantly in Montgomery County, Maryland. First as a solo practitioner and now in partnership with my daughter, Prudence Upton, at Avery & Upton, I have handled hundreds of divorce, child custody, child support, visitation, and other family issues, most often bringing them to resolution without the need for a trial.


I am certified as a mediator in both general civil matters and family law, focusing on property and child-related issues. I serve as a facilitator for the Family Law Division of the Montgomery County Circuit Court.


All of these experiences orient me toward Collaborative Practice. In this process, my clients resolve their own problems with their 'other parties.' They do this with my help and that of experts in personal finances, child psychology, and marriage counseling. Clients who have participated in this process are relieved to work together with their former partners rather than have a result imposed upon them by the judicial system.
Firm/BusinessName: Avery & Upton
Address(es): 51 Monroe Street
Suite 701
Rockville MD 20850 USA
Phone: 301-762-7644
Fax: 301-762-8539
Email: bea@AveryUptonLaw.com
Website: http://www.AveryUptonLaw.com

Practice Group Membership
  • Collaborative Dispute Resolution Professionals, Inc.
  • Maryland Collaborative Practice Council
  • Professional Activities
  • Past President, Collaborative Dispute Resolution Professionals, Inc., Montgomery County, Maryland
  • Trainer, Collaborative Practice Training Institute
  • Founding Member, Maryland Collaborative Practice Council
  • Family Law Section, Bar Association of Montgomery County, Maryland
  • Maryland State Bar Association
  • Kentucky Bar Association
  • DC Bar
  • American Bar Association
  • American Association for Justice
  • Professional Licenses
  • Member of Bars of Maryland, District of Columbia, Kentucky, and Republic of Korea
  • General Comments
    Collaborative Law has lived up to my expectations for helping families resolve problems rather than create new problems.
    Areas of Practice
  • Collaborative Law
  • Family Law
  • Guardian Ad Litem
  • Mediation
  • Education
    Undergraduate Education
    Hobart College, Geneva, NY BA 1971
    Professional Education
    University of Louisville, KY JD 1976
    Collaborative Practice Training
    Year Training Type Instructor Hours
    2004 Basic Collaborative Law Training Palliser Group 13
    2005 Advanced Mediation Training Fox & Vaughn 40
    2005 Basic Mediation Training Wolfe, Fox & Vaughn 40
    2007 Conflict Resolution Training Ellison 6
    2007 Conflict Resolution Training Solvin 6
    2008 Interdisciplinary Team Training CDTT 20
    2008 Basic Collaborative Law Training I assisted with training 14
    2009 Interdisciplinary Team Training I was instructor 20
    2009 Interdisciplinary Team Training Gamache, McCollum & Wolff 23
    2009 Selecting Best Collaborative Process Tesler & Thompson 6
    ** I have reviewed the IACP Minimum Standards for Collaborative Practitioners and the IACP Ethical Standards for Collaborative Professionals. I verify that I meet the IACP Minimum Standards for Collaborative Practitioners and that I apply the IACP Ethical Standards for Collaborative Professionals in my collaborative practice.

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    ** I have reviewed the IACP Minimum Standards for Collaborative Trainers I verify that I am a Collaborative Practice trainer who meets those Minimum Standards.

    ** I have reviewed the IACP Minimum Standards for a Collaborative Basic Training. I verify that the basic training that I offer as a Collaborative Practice trainer meets those Minimum Standards.

    IACP does not verify the information provided by the professionals listed in this directory.


     Continuing Education
    Year Education Type Instructor Hours
    2008 Harvard Negotiation Project Training Patton 40

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